Consistency ...

so, i'm going to take a different approach with this exercise ... i question the feelings of someone who from one day to next portrays different feelings: one day interest, the next day disinterest -- one day engaged, the next distant -- one day personal, the next less so...  fine if that is how the individual wants to conduct himself .. but this does have an impact on how others will react ... I personally take a distant approach with such individuals ... their inconsistent behavior affects me negatively if i am engaged ... it's hard to always have to re-start and then the next time realize that the effort put the previous time is gone and now start again  ... so i disengage! and i will entertain their interlocution but remain emotionally aloof ... i cannot get on the roller coaster ride -- more so if i have an emotional tie to this person ...

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