Posts

Showing posts from February, 2017

emotional availability... not!

When you get in a relationship with someone you really like, you want to give everything you have in the relationship, and expect your partner to do the same. However, when one partner keeps their emotions under wraps and doesn’t feel comfortable sharing them(much less care about your emotions), you will get hurt quickly in the relationship. It takes two people to have a healthy, happy relationship, and when one doesn’t open up their heart entirely to their partner, the other will inevitably feel betrayed and confused. If you suspect someone you know is emotionally unavailable, but aren’t sure, these signs will clear it up for you. HERE ARE 7 SIGNS SOMEONE IS EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE: 1. YOU CAN’T READ THEM CLEARLY. An emotionally unavailable person will try to confuse you to death with mixed messages – one day, they want to commit to you, and the next, they don’t even want a relationship. Or, in regards to friendship, the friend may ask you questions about yourself, but don’t wan...

narcissist who doesn't love you

08 July 2016 Written by Leslie Glass What is a narcissist, you might ask. Are you controlled by one? Narcissists are the most confusing (and dangerous) people on earth. If they are toxic or malignant narcissists, they take control and rob you of your independence in every way. Don’t confuse a garden variety selfish person with a full on narcissist or sociopath. See it coming and run for the hills. What’s difficult to assess in the beginning is that narcissists can seem super nice and generous and caring. Then slowly things begin to change as their masks slip and they morph into the black hole of need, of demand, of criticism. And the list goes on. Until you're walking through a minefield, trying not to be punished for offending. A narcissist will commonly choose someone raised to be co-dependent as prey. Co-dependent people tend to be nice, sweet, reasonable, eager to please. They can be taken in because they don’t see what’s coming and don’t believe people can be toxic for ...

word games &

Words intensify The morning's rush, The afternoon's wave The senses ignite-- The energy of thoughts Conquers my silence I lose myself Within a fantasy's turning-- My desires yearning Time breaks The twilight burning The echoes running with the wind The curtains lifted My heart asunder-- The players exited the stage.

untitled longings

The moon casting its shadows Robbing the night of its powers My dreams are forlorn echoes Of the fantasy that usurped my reality Ever vigilant, my dreams Become elaborate plays Random chapters replaying The ones that dwell in my heart, The ones that feed my desires The same player always Near and far Body against body + the longings Voice gaze and how the body moves The flame that chars my beating heart.

Loving & Caring

Hi G-- The Queen of Cups is sensitive and giving. This is a woman who has much understanding and cares for those around her. If she is in your life you are very lucky indeed as she has a kind and gentle heart, which sometimes knows no bounds when it comes to understanding those around her. She does not take life for granted, nor should she be taken for granted. This Queen is highly imaginative, artistic and creative. She uses these qualities to sift through her emotions, and is highly in tune with those around her. This is a woman who is a great listener, whilst knowing what to say at just the right moment. She is not good around harsh people or criticism, as she will take much of it to heart. The water signs of the zodiac, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are associated with the Queen of Cups. Just like these signs emotions are high on her list of priorities. These emotions include her own as well as yours. She can "read" a situation or "unspoken" word better t...