Love &*
"can't talk. Feeling something ... " karen walker in will and grace
it's not hard to figure it out ... i've seen it so often ... guys who prefer the dick to emotion ... and when they're feeling something, they look for sex --whether with a stranger or a loveless partner -- and, once the feeling is satiated, they go back to their everyday emptiness ... why not choose love, i always wonder ... what is there about it that makes people (including myself at times) cringe?
and the saddest thing of all is that these people are always wailing and yearning for a relationship but will inevitably sabotage any chance of having one while in the chase for the cock to avoid emotional commitment ... and anyone who comes their way who gives them the benefit of the doubt, who gives them a chance, they see as a pushover ... or too passive or just someone to take advantage of ... ultimately these are narcissistic individuals whose life revolves around their own pleasures and comfort ... they lack the ability to have anyone else in their life occupy a place of emotional importance ... love is beyond their understanding ... i suspect their childhoods were filled with loneliness and isolation, seeking solace in masturbation or other physical pleasure as a way to satiate their emotional needs ... as adults, whether tops or bottoms, they just seek momentary pleasure to replace love ... the bottoms will often find emotionally abusive relationships with equally sexually compulsive and often manipulative tops who use sex as a way to control their preys ... a dysfunctional pair void of any spiritual bond or any bond beyond the physical ... sadly, bottoms let themselves be consumed by it--willing participants in their slow spiritual and even physical demise
don't get me wrong, i like and enjoy sex and can be equally moved by it, but i don't let it control me and definitely not my emotions ... sex can be a very strong compulsion -- people lose themselves in it, lose jobs, lose families & relationships over it ... yet it always leads back to us; and often it will lead us to loneliness either alone or in unfulfilling relationships ... we can justify it as much as we want, but we know the truth in our hearts and we feel the emptiness ... we are not just physical beings ... we have to strike a balance between the biggest drivers in our lives--sex, love, & (hopefully) the spiritual ... and we can't split ourselves either ... we can't have emotional/spiritual with one and physical with another ... that is not a healthy, fulfilling pairing.
it's not hard to figure it out ... i've seen it so often ... guys who prefer the dick to emotion ... and when they're feeling something, they look for sex --whether with a stranger or a loveless partner -- and, once the feeling is satiated, they go back to their everyday emptiness ... why not choose love, i always wonder ... what is there about it that makes people (including myself at times) cringe?
and the saddest thing of all is that these people are always wailing and yearning for a relationship but will inevitably sabotage any chance of having one while in the chase for the cock to avoid emotional commitment ... and anyone who comes their way who gives them the benefit of the doubt, who gives them a chance, they see as a pushover ... or too passive or just someone to take advantage of ... ultimately these are narcissistic individuals whose life revolves around their own pleasures and comfort ... they lack the ability to have anyone else in their life occupy a place of emotional importance ... love is beyond their understanding ... i suspect their childhoods were filled with loneliness and isolation, seeking solace in masturbation or other physical pleasure as a way to satiate their emotional needs ... as adults, whether tops or bottoms, they just seek momentary pleasure to replace love ... the bottoms will often find emotionally abusive relationships with equally sexually compulsive and often manipulative tops who use sex as a way to control their preys ... a dysfunctional pair void of any spiritual bond or any bond beyond the physical ... sadly, bottoms let themselves be consumed by it--willing participants in their slow spiritual and even physical demise
don't get me wrong, i like and enjoy sex and can be equally moved by it, but i don't let it control me and definitely not my emotions ... sex can be a very strong compulsion -- people lose themselves in it, lose jobs, lose families & relationships over it ... yet it always leads back to us; and often it will lead us to loneliness either alone or in unfulfilling relationships ... we can justify it as much as we want, but we know the truth in our hearts and we feel the emptiness ... we are not just physical beings ... we have to strike a balance between the biggest drivers in our lives--sex, love, & (hopefully) the spiritual ... and we can't split ourselves either ... we can't have emotional/spiritual with one and physical with another ... that is not a healthy, fulfilling pairing.
