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6 Reasons You Attracted the People In Your Life
Published September 12, 2012 | By Rosine Caplot
This one is for Raymond with Love
Do you ever wonder why you attracted into your life those people who are currently a part of it? How come exactly these people, or these types of people, choose to engage with you?
Here are 6 factors that could explain why you attracted the people in your life.
Your Energetic Signature
Your energetic signature is the #1 big reason for everything you attract into your life. Every circumstance, situation and event in your life is there because it matches your energy in some way. This applies to people and relationships as well.
Our life is one big reflection of who we are energetically.
Who we are energetically depends on a lot of factors, for example:
our thoughts and mental focus
our emotions
our physical body energy, lifestyle and state of physical health
the foods we eat
the actions we choose to take
our environment: the people we engage with, the places we spend time in…
our soul-level energy
Our soul-level energy also depends on different factors, for example:
who we “really” are at soul-level (our true nature)
energetic patterns, both positive and negative, that were created within past and present relationships and still run through us 24/7
past and present life blocks and restrictions that were created when we made unfortunate choices or when bad stuff happened to us
energy management habits, which can be helpful to us or not
it can even happen that we inappropriately share our energetic space with other spiritual entities, and those can influence our thoughts, emotions and overall energy in all kinds of ways
That’s a whole lot of factors, and they all determine who we attract into our life experience. Because of the Law of Attraction, only what matches your energy can come into your life, and everything that comes into your life is there because there’s something within you that resonates with it.
This means that basically, you attracted the people in your life because there is something within you that’s a match, at the level of energy, for these people and for the relationships you have with them.
Your Intentions
You can’t attract someone who is clearly out of resonance with your energetic signature. However, within the frame of your energetic signature, one of the main factors that determine who you attract into your life are your intentions.
Depending on what your intentions are, you will attract certain people and not others. For example, I frequently notice that when my intention is to expand into a certain energy, I start meeting new people who already are a match for this energy. And this happens even before I have actually expanded.
People come into our life to help us manifest our intentions. Of course they don’t know that consciously, but it just happens that our paths cross at the right time.
They might bring information, resources, support, or simply be a match for our intention themselves, which inspires us, influences us, gives us an example and role model to follow, and helps us to shift.
Maybe some of the people in your life are there because their presence helps you to reach your goals and manifest your current intentions.
Your Beliefs
We also attract people into our life based on our beliefs. We cannot really consistently manifest anything that contradicts our beliefs too much. No matter what you believe, the Universe will tend to prove you right.
Therefore, you attracted the people in your life because they probably don’t challenge your current belief system too much.
Unfinished Business
Sometimes I have seen it happen that when two persons have some unfinished business left from another lifetime, they meet in this lifetime to take care of it. This usually is not a simple relationship, because of the baggage we are carrying.
Sometimes it’s about healing the past stuff and then building something in this lifetime, and other times it’s about healing the past stuff and then finally moving on and letting go of that person.
When I met my boyfriend Eduardo, I fell in love with him the very minute I heard his voice for the first time. All he had to do to make me fall for him was to say “Hey” to me. I immediately “recognized” him, and three days after meeting him, I was already telling all my friends that I would emigrate to Brazil and marry the guy.
And I was really NOT the kind of girl who dreams of getting married! I never valued marriage much before. But when I met him, I suddenly became frantically obsessed with marrying him as soon as I could. That was weird.
Another weird detail was that I was always afraid he would die. Every time he’d take his motorbike I’d feel anxious and say “Please be careful!!”. Once we talked about it and I told him that deep down I was expecting him to die anytime (sooner rather than later). He said that must be a terrible way of living! That’s true, and I don’t have this kind of fears normally. It was so strangely out of character for me, but I just couldn’t help it.
Later I found out that we had already been engaged in another lifetime and I had vowed to marry him – but he died before I could. THAT is the unfinished business that was triggered when I met him and was causing my irrational behavior. After the old stuff and the vow of marriage were cleared away, my fears about him dying vanished, and even though I still want to marry him, now I don’t feel like I absolutely need to marry him asap!!! anymore.
It is possible that you attracted some of the people in your life because you have some unfinished business to take care of. Maybe the old stuff was holding you back on your path and now the time has come to let go of it so you can make new choices.
Soul-level Agreements
Before incarnating, we make agreements with some other souls to meet in this lifetime to help and support each other on our path. Based on our intentions, beliefs, energetic signature etc. we meet some of these people and others not, but generally speaking, we tend to attract these people into our life. That’s because we have something like an appointment with them!
We might not be aware of it consciously, but our higher selves find ways to bring us together. For example, they give us intuitive guidance that, when followed, causes us to make certain choices and those choices result in us meeting.
These people are the very special friends who are here to support us and walk a portion of our path together with us. I bet you have soul-level agreements in place with many of the people who currently surround you.
Life Lessons
We usually have “lessons” we are working on as a part of our path of soul evolution. (I don’t like the word “lessons”. Reminds me of school!) These lessons are energetic qualities that we want to learn how to tune into more.
We tend to attract life experiences that help us learn those lessons. Some of these experiences are even drafted and planned before we even incarnate.
In some cases this could explain why we attract some of the people we attract. For example, if one of my lessons is, say, authority, and if I keep attracting domineering people who never do what I ask them to, give me unsolicited advice all the time and try to boss me around… chances are, they’re just my sparring partners!
Maybe some of the people in your life are there because of a lesson you are currently working on.
… And More Generally: Help and Support.
We are all here to play this game of physical incarnation together. It would be difficult to grow if we were all alone in the world. Other people help us to evolve by giving us opportunities to make choices and experience their consequences. Seen this way, even difficult relationships, conflicts and hostile people are, in reality, help and support for us.
We are all here to be actors and extras in each other’s movie. It’s important that we remember to be thankful to each other for that, whether our characters get along well with each other in the movie or not.
Published September 12, 2012 | By Rosine Caplot
This one is for Raymond with Love
Do you ever wonder why you attracted into your life those people who are currently a part of it? How come exactly these people, or these types of people, choose to engage with you?
Here are 6 factors that could explain why you attracted the people in your life.
Your Energetic Signature
Your energetic signature is the #1 big reason for everything you attract into your life. Every circumstance, situation and event in your life is there because it matches your energy in some way. This applies to people and relationships as well.
Our life is one big reflection of who we are energetically.
Who we are energetically depends on a lot of factors, for example:
our thoughts and mental focus
our emotions
our physical body energy, lifestyle and state of physical health
the foods we eat
the actions we choose to take
our environment: the people we engage with, the places we spend time in…
our soul-level energy
Our soul-level energy also depends on different factors, for example:
who we “really” are at soul-level (our true nature)
energetic patterns, both positive and negative, that were created within past and present relationships and still run through us 24/7
past and present life blocks and restrictions that were created when we made unfortunate choices or when bad stuff happened to us
energy management habits, which can be helpful to us or not
it can even happen that we inappropriately share our energetic space with other spiritual entities, and those can influence our thoughts, emotions and overall energy in all kinds of ways
That’s a whole lot of factors, and they all determine who we attract into our life experience. Because of the Law of Attraction, only what matches your energy can come into your life, and everything that comes into your life is there because there’s something within you that resonates with it.
This means that basically, you attracted the people in your life because there is something within you that’s a match, at the level of energy, for these people and for the relationships you have with them.
Your Intentions
You can’t attract someone who is clearly out of resonance with your energetic signature. However, within the frame of your energetic signature, one of the main factors that determine who you attract into your life are your intentions.
Depending on what your intentions are, you will attract certain people and not others. For example, I frequently notice that when my intention is to expand into a certain energy, I start meeting new people who already are a match for this energy. And this happens even before I have actually expanded.
People come into our life to help us manifest our intentions. Of course they don’t know that consciously, but it just happens that our paths cross at the right time.
They might bring information, resources, support, or simply be a match for our intention themselves, which inspires us, influences us, gives us an example and role model to follow, and helps us to shift.
Maybe some of the people in your life are there because their presence helps you to reach your goals and manifest your current intentions.
Your Beliefs
We also attract people into our life based on our beliefs. We cannot really consistently manifest anything that contradicts our beliefs too much. No matter what you believe, the Universe will tend to prove you right.
Therefore, you attracted the people in your life because they probably don’t challenge your current belief system too much.
Unfinished Business
Sometimes I have seen it happen that when two persons have some unfinished business left from another lifetime, they meet in this lifetime to take care of it. This usually is not a simple relationship, because of the baggage we are carrying.
Sometimes it’s about healing the past stuff and then building something in this lifetime, and other times it’s about healing the past stuff and then finally moving on and letting go of that person.
When I met my boyfriend Eduardo, I fell in love with him the very minute I heard his voice for the first time. All he had to do to make me fall for him was to say “Hey” to me. I immediately “recognized” him, and three days after meeting him, I was already telling all my friends that I would emigrate to Brazil and marry the guy.
And I was really NOT the kind of girl who dreams of getting married! I never valued marriage much before. But when I met him, I suddenly became frantically obsessed with marrying him as soon as I could. That was weird.
Another weird detail was that I was always afraid he would die. Every time he’d take his motorbike I’d feel anxious and say “Please be careful!!”. Once we talked about it and I told him that deep down I was expecting him to die anytime (sooner rather than later). He said that must be a terrible way of living! That’s true, and I don’t have this kind of fears normally. It was so strangely out of character for me, but I just couldn’t help it.
Later I found out that we had already been engaged in another lifetime and I had vowed to marry him – but he died before I could. THAT is the unfinished business that was triggered when I met him and was causing my irrational behavior. After the old stuff and the vow of marriage were cleared away, my fears about him dying vanished, and even though I still want to marry him, now I don’t feel like I absolutely need to marry him asap!!! anymore.
It is possible that you attracted some of the people in your life because you have some unfinished business to take care of. Maybe the old stuff was holding you back on your path and now the time has come to let go of it so you can make new choices.
Soul-level Agreements
Before incarnating, we make agreements with some other souls to meet in this lifetime to help and support each other on our path. Based on our intentions, beliefs, energetic signature etc. we meet some of these people and others not, but generally speaking, we tend to attract these people into our life. That’s because we have something like an appointment with them!
We might not be aware of it consciously, but our higher selves find ways to bring us together. For example, they give us intuitive guidance that, when followed, causes us to make certain choices and those choices result in us meeting.
These people are the very special friends who are here to support us and walk a portion of our path together with us. I bet you have soul-level agreements in place with many of the people who currently surround you.
Life Lessons
We usually have “lessons” we are working on as a part of our path of soul evolution. (I don’t like the word “lessons”. Reminds me of school!) These lessons are energetic qualities that we want to learn how to tune into more.
We tend to attract life experiences that help us learn those lessons. Some of these experiences are even drafted and planned before we even incarnate.
In some cases this could explain why we attract some of the people we attract. For example, if one of my lessons is, say, authority, and if I keep attracting domineering people who never do what I ask them to, give me unsolicited advice all the time and try to boss me around… chances are, they’re just my sparring partners!
Maybe some of the people in your life are there because of a lesson you are currently working on.
… And More Generally: Help and Support.
We are all here to play this game of physical incarnation together. It would be difficult to grow if we were all alone in the world. Other people help us to evolve by giving us opportunities to make choices and experience their consequences. Seen this way, even difficult relationships, conflicts and hostile people are, in reality, help and support for us.
We are all here to be actors and extras in each other’s movie. It’s important that we remember to be thankful to each other for that, whether our characters get along well with each other in the movie or not.