Birds of a feather ...
people who are alike tend to form societies ... and once part of this society, the individual is forced to conform to its rules, its morality, its codes of ethics and behavior ... the society becomes master--it dictates what is normal and acceptable ... the individual loses his individuality, his dreams, wants and desires are secondary ... he must conform to be seen, he must conform to matter ... the society decides his happiness and he plays along, often unhappy, disillusioned, dissatisfied.