Question??

is it possible to seduce and make someone fall in love with you by doing everything their friends have told you they are looking for in mate?

what if none of the things you're supposed to do are part of your personality, not in your nature? Do you go on pretending until you trap your prey? ... a wolf in sheep's clothing, as it were ....

will it work in the long term?

what happens when you can't pretend anymore or when they see through you? will the stay with you regardless? (time invested ... too old to move on to someone else ... etc)

would such a relationship be satisfying for both partners?
can it be said that such a relationship is built out of fear of intimacy and fear of looking for someone who is a true fit? Lack of self esteem?

hmmmm

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