Managing a Helpless Cock-Addict Sub Bottom II

If you have read the first article on this subject, and perhaps even applied the guidelines, you know that sub-bottoms are controlled with cock. They're are helpless when it comes to their desire to get fucked and will do anything to get a cock in their hole.

Now the previous article tells you how to manage and get the bottom addicted and attached to you, Here we will tell you how to keep him under your control.

If you have applied the previous guidelines on your bottom, the following should be true:

• he is isolated from his friends or rarely sees them (he has been flaking on them too often to see you when you want)
• you do not go with him to any event that involves his friends (it's becoming obvious that you're emotionally abusing him)
• he only listen to you or eventually does what you say or want
• he is keeping what happens between the two of you to himself (this is good if you are into emotional or physical abuse)
• he is afraid to do or say anything that will cross you -- his little nervous laugh when he does is met with your cold stare!
• he is willing to buy you things or give you money or "loans" --
• he is down on his self esteem
• he now thinks you are the only man for him, the only one who really understands and deal with him
• knows that you can cut him off his "drug" at any time (and now his friends have left him)
• you are the de facto manager of his time: he is always waiting for you to make plans and your plans trump any other plans he might make with any one else; and he drops any one to see you
• he is always checking his email to see if you have mailed him
• you fuck him when you want, how you want -- and you bareback him all the time and load him up no matter who you have fucked --- his submission to you is unconditional

The question now is, how do you maintain that control?? You maintain that control by continuing to play with his head, with his emotions, with his fear of you, withholding cock and your company to keep him wanting more, and, most importantly, fear. By now your bottom should fear you, he should be afraid that you will leave him, he should be afraid to leave you -- he should be intimated by you.

You should have been fucking with his self esteem. By now you know him well enough to know what his insecurities are. Play on those insecurities, especially those that have to do with his body or his body image. Make him feel ugly, fat, old, weak/sickly, etc ... this is all good work in keeping him under your control. As mentioned in the previous article, he will be afraid to venture away from you -- after all, you put up with his issues -- who else will?? This is real love!! He should reach a point where he feels you really love him enough to put up with his issues --- now, that is total control. These bottoms are weak and cannot bring themselves to see reality -- just like a woman, they will deny that this is abuse even if it makes them feel bad about themselves. 

To keep this control, you have already done some good work ... for example, you might have flung his cat or other pet across the room, you may have thrown potted plants around, you may have hit walls or kicked furniture, you may have lunged at him, you may have held him against a wall, bed, or floor in anger ... or better still, you may have smacked him or thrown him about ... all of these actions serve two purposes:

1. assert your control
2. get him more submissive in and out of bed. These bottoms see aggression as the ultimate show of manliness and domination and their but tholes get hungry for cock after a display of manly aggression. 

Make a show of aggression then almost immediately fuck him. Remember, a submissive bottom sees abuse from the top as the top's right--they expect it;  after all, you are a real man and real men have tempers, real men are dominant and exert control, they get angry, they throw things, they hit, they push, they abuse to get what they want ... of course, afterwards you apologize and promise never to do it again and fuck him good; and, MOST IMPORTANTLY, make sure you tell him that he got you upset, make sure you tell him that what he said or did got you so upset that you had to hit something, you had to let out your anger. He will understand this and in the future will not do, say or see any one that will bring out your anger -- after all, it is his fault you get angry and abuse him--and it is your right as the man to make him submit to you.

Now you have him where you want him. Now you use the threat of your potential aggression or the silent treatment, withholding affection, as the tools to keep him under your control. He will become so intimidated that he will limit his life to work and socializing with you and who ever you choose for him--both in and out of bed.
You have now mastered your bottom.