if you're lucky, you might find someone who is exactly right for you. Not because he is perfect, , or because you are, but because your combined flaws are arranged in a way that allows two separate beings to hinge together. The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: there is a reaction and both are transformed. ― unknown “Each of us is born with a box of matches inside us but we can't strike them all by ourselves; we need oxygen and a candle to help. In this case, the oxygen for example, would come from the breath of the person you love; the candle would be any kind of food, music, caress, word, or sound that engenders the explosion that lights one of the matches. For a moment we are dazzled by an intense emotion. A pleasant warmth grows within us, fading slowly as time goes by, until a new explosion comes along to revive it. Each person has to discover what will set off those explosions in order to live, since the combustion that occur...